Women are the compatible sex, not the opposite sex. So it’s not nearly as hard to attract them as it seems. You were just never taught what you need to know. Step 2 is to become aware of your sources of wrong advice, so you’ll know not to rely on them any longer.

Why You Are So Clueless

One reason why men are so clueless and frustrated in relating with women is that they are looking for guidance and advice from women. Women have certainly given me some helpful feedback on what men should not do, but I have not found that the women I've sought advice from have given me information that has been all that useful in what to do to be attractive. It's been my experience that if you ask a woman what makes a man attractive to her, she’ll probably at best give you incomplete information. As you'll see in this course, what makes a man attractive isn't something that most women can list succinctly and comprehensively in a conversation with you or that the woman is even entirely aware of on a conscious level. Rather the steps for building attractiveness in this course are based on years of research and require extensive explanation in order for you to understand in a useful way.

We men are also misinformed by our male friends -- especially as we form our notions about women in our youth. Rather than telling each other the truth about our experiences with women, we avoid embarrassment by changing critical facts of our story.

The mass media makes things worse by unrealistically depicting what makes a man attractive to a woman. I think Hollywood male writers often depict the way they wish women would behave, rather than the ways that women actually behave. Let's watch one of these Hollywood depictions now and you’ll see what I mean.

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